The Analytics of Valentine’s Day
Armed with data from Google Analytics, The Nielsen Company, and Experian Simmons, you may be surprised to learn that online dating traffic doesn’t go up on Valentine’s Day, but actually peaks several days after.
Those that were scared straight into a VD date, find themselves staring across the table from their date, while the voice in their head says “I did this so I wouldn’t be alone?” “I don’t even find this person interesting, intelligent, funny, or attractive…..why-did I do this?”
They then hit the on-line dating website or app again to recover to have a do-over. Take that mulligan before it’s too late.
Those that truly understand how the mind works would tell you to save your money on the dating sites and invest in yourself, invest in that which always appreciate in value rather than depreciates, that is, as long as we do the work to understand who we are, and how our minds and therefore lives work.
You are where you are in the relationship world because of the stories you allow to be told in your head. The self-criticism, the self-doubt, the negativity all play a major role with the person you see when you look in the mirror.
Did you know that the average person has 60,000 thoughts a day? Of those, 85% repeat over and over. If these are negative and repeating again and again, imagine what you are training your thoughts to believe?
You are the only one that can re-tool your self-talk, and change it to be positive and proactive. If you are making negative statements about yourself, all day, every day, then what do you imagine the outcome will be? How many times do you tell yourself, “That was dumb…” or “How stupid are you? Or “I really should have…?”
Stop for a moment and ask yourself if you spoke to your best friend that way, would they remain your best friend? For most of us, the answer is no. So why do you settle for anything less?
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